Liang Chaowei ever was defended in phoenix of be a guest inspect " celebrity face-to-face " he spoke of be opposite in the program marriage and emotive view. Liang Chaowei and love long-distance running of Liu Jialing did not marry more than 10 years however, to this he says: "Must not marry together " , the reason is the parents when his childhood leaves other, "Because have the shadow of childhood, because this feels marriage does not have safe feeling, to marriage a bit fear " . Do not know parents divorced after all to cause how terrible effect to Liang Chaowei, cause him such to marriage " scared " , nevertheless, another idea of Liang Chaowei more shock letting a person, saying to marry actually is a form only, "A law that marriage is divorce time belongings only assures, when liking to want to divorce, can take this money that separate an aspect, not was necessary so " , liang Chaowei says, "Two people are happy be together, must not marry " . To Liang Chaowei there is a kind of reality only on the world, concern his own thought process namely, he tries what belong to an individual merely, confused, the mind that the mood changes, translate into has the acknowledge of common sense and truth property to hold to a kind of modern city culture, I saw decadent and degenerate, saw inhospitality, but truly valuable without discovery however thought.
Factitious what should marry? This is the problem of a very difficult comprehensive or can exact answer really. Remember a conte, the official that says a government goes a pasturing area makes an on-the-spot investigation, a shepherd boy that puts a sheep asks in road: "Why you don't read? " cowboy answers: "Because I should put a sheep. " the official asks again: "Why should put a sheep? " cowboy path: "To earn money. " the official asks again: "Earn money dry what? " cowboy path: "Earn money marry son's wife. " the official jokingly: "What does that marry daughter-in-law to work again? " cowboy indissolubles the ground looks at an official to say: "Marry daughter-in-law to give birth to the child! " the official continues to ask jokingly: "What does unripe child do? " cowboy wants to answer flatly: "Put a sheep! " official immediately be rendered speechless. Of course this is a jest only, it is to want to say the education of a pasturing area at that time is very backward roughly, the idea idea of people still dated, because this popularizes obligation in out-of-the-way a pasturing area,teach imperative. But, the person has each way of life each, to the child of an a pasturing area, he can arrive simply to the understanding of the life this kind of degree, what to put a sheep to have actually bad? For generations is such, the life can enjoy the fun of the life likewise on the prairie. And pure to marital understanding to primitive society, marrying is to give birth to the child, think actually also the truth not without it, the ancients is not to also had said " disobedient have 3, after notting have, be big " , " male become greatly marriage, female should marry greatly " the word of and so on? It is the society that the society developed an opposite culture only, the idea idea of people produced tremendous change, to the love understanding to marriage also no longer so " sheet sees shallow hear " .
Liang Chaowei says, "Two people are happy be together, must not marry " , the meaning loves to must not stay together long namely. To love, this is a kind of state, the person that can reach such state nevertheless is very few however. Big S has said a word: "Do not marry to want to talk about love why on earth? " the desire that the meaning of this word may represent most person, tan Lian loves even if be finish marriage, just talk about love to marry, this also does not have a fault, everybody wants to have a happy and perfect family, think the life that is oneself is responsible, who is met a to fall in love a mythical bird like the phoenix bleach Feng Bo? So somebody can not understand, must two people marry together? It is OK also to do not marry " get married " ah, also can give birth to the child. This " get married " marry namely actually, trifling matter of marital important matter is not gotten, because everybody sees it,getting so important ability to be able to marry. Marrying is a form, but this also is inevitable, necessary form. Marry should do wedding, do wedding to want to let others know, want to pass an information to everybody namely: You had married. Although this is a form, but it is a form that has a sense, e.g. , you married to be able to have a lot of restriction, you should some " the right " also did not have, if you must go exercise you such and such " the right " , if you have darkroom self, can suffer the others doubt to your morality character, can get the condemnation of public opinion, do bad meeting to be done so that you do not have face very much. Wedding and marry register same effect, wedding is to give you socially, in the family, a when go up between close friends " safe bar " , from you after wedding, your privacy can enter the range that is supervised, in the family that usually you cannot betray you anyhow, betray your wife or husband; And marry registering is to give you to be in a of jural installation " insurance lock " , had legal control, be in China for instance, you seek a few wife impossibly more again, you looked for even if also is illegimate then, want generation illegimately to give a lot of issues, mean the protection that lost legislation in a lot of respects, popular feeling is measured hard, affairs of human life is changeful, if for long-term plan, everybody is willing to talk about love not to marry only.
"A law that marrying is divorce time belongings merely assures " , this word is extreme to marriage understanding, regarded marriage as set in the chains on the neck, "Reality " also too overdid, it is very selfish a kind of very inactive idea. A big star speaks such word, yan Qian can say it is indicating acting art view of domain recreation morality begins to replace traditional morality to watch, the mark is worn of reason, morality, responsibility and conscience break down in the round, apparent the marital view that this is condition of materiality of a kind of illicit, it is the marital view of property of a kind of dissimilation, its inspect region extremely narrow, of attention is the life content that only oneself and few number person are interested in, is not the human experience that has common sense and collective experience. In Liang Chaowei's idea, love and marriage are two different matters completely, love is true, instead marriage was become it seems that redundant, he thinks to permanent marriage cannot exist on the world probably, marriage is entirely imaginary, because,be his nihilistic, just had him of this kind of irrelevant flirtatious with low Mingshi romance model individualistic.
Meeting prediction of a person's luck in a given year of the property after doesn't Liang Chaowei marry with Liu Jialing even if divorcing? Be afraid won't, they should not be because of money cannot be together quite. But possible also, liu Jialing is things that are stale and unfasionable after all, but Liang Chaowei's career is at the summit of one's power, exhibit greatly brilliant when, if say to want to earn money, what then Liang Chaowei must compare Liu Jialing to have money is much, his Liang Chaowei is inherent and selfish, miserly, it is likely very be based on this reason and do not marry with Liu Jialing, the love that is as long as 17 years also because of " scared marriage " and terminative; A 5 carat got Buddhist monastic discipline to bury sheet for love years of Liu Jialing: "Can buy for you get Buddhist monastic discipline to make clear want to marry with you, and do not marry even if marry. " ... additional I can so say, liang Chaowei has extremely dark mentality, he does not marry even if cast off marital chains, continue his love revolution, with Liu Dehua this old man is same, big marriage is done not have, young marriage is ceaseless, pardonable Ceng Huaqian says " he now is a lubricious monster " .
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